SAMARA RIVIERA

Hi guys! I’m back once again. I am back writing a regular column this month for a special reason. I realized something these past, almost, couple of years I’ve been in Miami. And that is that there is less and less straight men left, anywhere. I know some of you will think I’m crazy but no one has more authority to write about straight men and their sexuality than me. I have been doing extensive and hands on research for the past, almost, ten years. Ever since I became a drag queen back in San Diego and used to hang around Brass Rail and Kickers, I’ve been messing with straight type men. Of course this column can go many different ways. Such as: how many gay experiences make you gay? Do drag queens and trannies count? What about having sex with a transsexual that is completely done everywhere. There are many ways but I will try to stick to the subject of just straight men going gay. Meaning going with gay men. There are many of you out there reading this right now who are already starting to think in your minds of that one time... Yes gay men can seduce straight men into a gay experience. Shall we discuss some of the ways? A man walks into a bar (this sounds like a joke but it’s not) chasing trannies who end up rejecting him, he ends up going with an aggressive gay man because he’s so horny. A woman breaks up with a man who ends up going to her best gay friend for comfort and they end up in bed. A gay guy lures a man with drugs, alcohol, and his “female” roommate. Once he’s under the influence anything goes. Also, sometimes straight men just get curious and want to try it. They do it and maybe they don’t like it, (lo probó pero no le gustó) but they did it nonetheless. Well, you guys get the point. There are many ways a straight man can go gay. (good news for you straight boy chasers) And of course now the Internet has changed the way we look at our sexuality. Remeber nobody is watching what web site your on at 3 am.

The reason I decided to write this article is because I have become an online chat room and IM addict. I am on it all night long into the morning. I spend all that time chatting with tranny chasers. I see pictures, I ask, I comment, and I learn about straight men’s sexuality. Not even mentioning, of course, all the hands on experience I’ve had to date in real life. It has become funny to me that most of the men who choose to chat with a tranny tell me they have had gay experiences with gay men. And almost 90% of them claim to be straight. Not even bisexual, they claim to be straight. Of course there are many variations in their experiences. Some did it only once, some only a couple of times and blame alcohol or drugs, and some don’t consider getting oral form gay men gay sex. They claim to be totally straight. And of course most of these men have girlfriends and wives. Poor ladies, if they only knew. Furthermore, some claim they’ve had sex with gay men before they had sex with trannies because gay men are more available than trannies. Meaning that trannies are not as common as gay men are out in the open. Which is true. Most can claim a gay coworker, a gay relative, or even a gay friend but that cannot be said of trannies. There aren’t enough of us to go around. Also I must mention that I started out going into the transgender/shemale chats but moved on to the regular straight chats. I don’t find much difference in the men that I chat with in either of the rooms. Meaning that straight men go into both chats, of course. I also must say that not all of my research has been done online I also get into the minds of men I meet outside in the real world.

Now don’t get me wrong I have nothing against these “straight” men who go gay but for goodness sakes don’t claim to be a straight man when your frequently getting bj’s from gay men. At least claim to be bisexual. That’s what really gets me, that they truly in their little minds believe that getting bj’s from gay men does not make them bisexual. Now I am not sure if this is just a Florida thing or if it’s happening all over. What I can tell you is that Miami gets a lot of tourists from all over the country and world. So, “what happened in Miami never happened.” As some would like to say. Also my extensive research started once I moved to Miami because I was getting too many men telling me about their gay experiences. I’ll have to do a little more research once I get out to So. Cali. OK, guys I’m off now. Gotta check my e-mails and see how many boys send me their nudies. Ha, ha! Don’t forget to read my recently changed name column in the following months. I have some really awesome surprises. I will start my series of legends interviews in the months to come. I’ll give you some hints as to who my interview subjects will be. Go and google these two book titles: The Happy Hooker and A Low Life in High Heels. I’m so excited. Luv ya! Hasta la luego. Don’t forget to also read my new column in South Florida’s brand new magazine titled LatinoBoysMagazine.com. Add me myspace.com/samarariviera

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