Get Your Thinking Straight and the Rest Will Follow

By Maria Etta Anabel

The Laws of Attraction are creating your life at this very moment.  They are always working.  They are all present and that from which we manifest our lives. They are controlled by your thoughts and feelings. Think straight, (forgive the pun) and the rest will follow.

Have you ever taken a ride with someone who constantly bitches about traffic?  They inevitably end up in traffic jams.  Have you ever spent time with someone who believes that all men are evil?  What are their relationships like?  Do they not end up with men who treat them very badly? 

Take a moment to look at that friend, boss, co-worker who believes that life is full of problems.  What are their lives like?  Are they not in constant struggle? Do you recognize yourself in any of these scenarios?

When I see a client the first time, we do an initial intake.  They describe their family, finances, health, relationships and give me a detailed outline of their life from birth to present.  The details are not terribly important, what I look for is how they think and feel about their life.  I look for their perspective and in that we find patterns in thinking that have created their lives.

What we think inspires our feelings.  Our feelings are the substance from which we create our lives.  Our feelings are our message to the Universe.  In feeling, we are using the Laws of Attraction.  It is literally like writing a letter to Santa and saying, my life is horrible, so I would like some more of the same, please. 

Think about this statement:  What we think, we create. Then, really ask yourself, what do you think, how do you feel.  If your answers are less than what you want for your life, then you know where to start the changes.

Now look at that friend who believes that everything he wants, he can have.  Look at the boss who constantly speaks in positives.  What kind of life does he have?  Look at a truly prosperous neighbor, what is her or his thinking about money, about life?  

Recently, my partner had a conversation with a man who is a millionaire many, many times over.  My partner was in a situation with a deal that had fallen through.  He stood next to this prosperous friend and told him of his situation.  The friend said simply, “keep focusing on what you want.  You will make it.”
My partner is now reworking his deal and he believes fully that he will prevail.

What do you believe?  Do you believe that the Universe is kind, loving and supportive, or do you believe that it is harsh and unforgiving?  Do you believe that the Universe is abundant and impartial or limited and favors only the chosen few?  Truly think about your belief systems.  Look at every aspect of yourself and figure out what your thinking is around each area of your life. 

One simple rule to follow:  If you are not happy and balanced, then your thinking is not life affirming, period.  There are no exceptions to the Laws of Attraction, just as there are no exceptions to the laws of gravity.  If you still cannot see the truth in this statement, dig deeper into your thinking.  Really take time to get inside yourself and look at what you believe about health, prosperity, relationships, friendships. 

In analyzing your thinking, do not be critical.  Being critical will create more of the same emotion and issues in your life.  Look at it without condemnation. Is your thinking serving you well?  Is it bringing in what you want?  If the answer is no, then choose consciously to try thinking differently, this will cause you to feel differently and you will rewrite your letter to Santa. 

If you find yourself defending your views with examples of ways that your thinking is correct, then you have proven that the Universe provides you with exactly what you believe.  This proof, so to speak, proves you right.  It does not prove that the Universe is mean to you, only that what you ask of the Universe is for it to give you exactly what you expect . . .ugliness.

Many of us are so connected to our belief systems that we spend a great deal of time informing everyone else of how wrong their thinking is.  This reinforces the rightness of our perspective and allows us to feel in control.  Being right is all important in this thinking system. 

I have an acquaintance who believes that in order to drive in LA, you must be aggressive and challenging. She picked me up one day and got into a road rage competition.  I was terrified and asked her to let me out of the car.  Feeling offended by my fear, she spent two weeks informing me that I did not know how to drive in LA, and that I had better learn to be aggressive or I would get killed on the freeway. 

She then spent several minutes describing me as foolish optimist, a Pollyanna (someone who always sees the positive in everything) and informed me that I was so unrealistic that she wondered what life must be like in “Marialand”.  I have never been in a road rage situation.  I do not believe that LA drivers are rude and hostile.

Take a risk.  Suspend your disbelief in what is possible for you.  Become an optimist.  Say everything in the positive.  Instead of saying, “I hate being fat” say, “I love my new skinny body” and feel that thin frame, even if at present you are 150 pounds from your ideal weight.  Believe that you are thin and you will begin the thinking, the feelings that will allow you to bring in your healthy weight. 

The Laws apply to everything in life, health, wealth, relationships, everything you want.  Believe it is possible, no matter what have experienced, become a Pollyanna.

If you are interested in Energy Therapy or working with the Laws of Attraction, you may contact me at: elloboproduction@sbcglobal.net.